Des Meagher: a changed life
 
Flat day has positive end.  SMS from Jo re dads session with physio:
"Just had a great session with physio.  He had flickers in shoulder wrist and elbow and some active movement. She has opened the door to prospect of dad gaining movement! Yay!"

Dad's Classic comments for the day:
Dr Burke sends his regards dad: "What's he ringing for?"
Dad's comment about Physio: "Short ass"
Response to catheter being clamped: Turns to me and says "the bastards!"
Physio asks: "What special event is it today Des?".  Dad: "My birthday"
(proved me wrong dad, and for once in my life - I'm happy about it!).
.....these momentary - but very clear - words and responses were a spark of light/hope.

On the flip side, when dad is asked: "Are you at home?" He responds with: "Yes"

Hope vs Reality - not evenly matched competitors.
Sam
6/3/2011 05:23:57 pm

What beautiful birthday cards from the grandkids! Happy Birthday Dessie. Keep up the fight and the 'magical hospital moments.' Love to all the family. Sam, Cliff, Ollie and Macey x

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Ray Wilson
7/3/2011 08:12:27 am

Nan and girls

Devastated to learn of this. Des and I roomed on a Victorian Amateur trip and played our first games for Hawthorn the same day. Remarkably, shining through the physical disaster is Des's special and unique humour - sharp, biting, and so funny. He is an original, and I treasure having had the pleasure to experience his company. I admire your bravery in compiling the blog, and will follow it and desperately hope to read more good news. Margaret joins in sending good wishes to you all.

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7/3/2011 08:25:00 am

Des , sorry to hear about your terrible misfortune. I always think of you when recalling my 2nd , (and total ) of games played for the Hawks . Kanga dragged me in favour of you just before half time of the game against South at Princes Park (1976) . He wanted a mud-runner on the field rather than a classy goal kicker I guess .
Now if you 're looking for some real music to inspire you on your road to recovery , and you will recover Des , go to my website and listen to the sampler of my CD "Golfs Greatest Hits " by the Great Grey Spark . If you like , and if one of your beautiful daughters could come back to me with an address , the full cd , and personally signed ( autographed ) (( unlike you Des, I only had a couple of opportunities to sign autographs back then )) by the Great Grey Spark will be on its way.
I didn't realise until I saw you just had your 67th that we played in the same team 35 years ago, with 14 years between us old man . You're still not too old to get over this though Des . Give it your best shot
Regards Sparksy (Graeme Spark )

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Robert Day
7/3/2011 09:29:41 am

Nan
Great Blog you must be proud that I found it !!
Look after him and yourself.
Love to the Family
Rob and Yvonne

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